I’m the least superstitious person there is! I’ll happily skip on three drains in a row, fearlessly let black cats run past me and whack my umbrella open indoors without a second thought!
However I had no idea that I’d been indulging in a whole host of wedding superstitions without even realising it! Eeeek! I read an article on where these originate from and I found it really interesting so thought I would share some of these with you…
Keeping the bride and bridegroom apart
This custom goes back to the days of arranged marriages. The fear was that if the pair saw each other before the ceremony (which would often be the first time they met), they might have second thoughts and back out.
I would like to keep this tradition alive though, purely to create more suspense and excitement of seeing each other on the big day in our wedding outfits! I also think it will be so fun to spend the night before with the bridesmaids getting excited and drinking champagne!
The bride’s veil
This originated in Ancient Rome, when a veil was considered necessary protection for the bride against potentially jealous evil spirits as she walked down the aisle.
I was planning on wearing a veil because its pretty and ‘weddingey’ but if it wards of evil spirits too that’s a bonus….
Something Old, New, Borrowed and Blue
These items loosely represent past, present and future. The “old” obviously symbolises the bride’s past; the “new” stands for the couple’s (happy) future. The “borrowed” item should come from someone who is happily married, so that the present good fortune rubs off on to the newly-weds. “Blue” represents fidelity and love.
I think it would be lovely to have something old from my beautiful mother or granny who are no longer with us to remeber them on the big day. I also love the idea of a baby blue garter under my dress!
Wedding Day
English superstition has it that Saturday is actually the unluckiest day of the week to get married!! We are getting married on Saturday as its the weekend and we can all celebrate without hangovers at work to worry about!!
Rain on your Wedding Day
Rain is considered to symbolise fertility. I’ll be bloody pissed of it rains!! Haha!
Who you Pass on the Day
Apparently its lucky if you see a black cat, rainbow, policeman, chimney sweep or frog (as you often do!!)
I am staying in the hotel where we are getting married the night before so lets hope they have some form of fancy dress party staying over that night, with a frog, policeman and chimney sweep!! Hehe! ❤ xx